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Right, What am I Doing?

 


I don't know what I'm doing! I'll freely admit that I'm not a natural writer and at the moment I have no idea where I'm going with this blog. I didn't even post anything last week, as I had no idea what to write. I felt like I should have done a styling post, but wasn't confident in my abilities to do it. The blog started off with me writing about wanting to become a personal stylist, however that was put on hold while I dealt with my employment tribunal. It became more about me dealing with the stress of the situation and felt good to get those emotions out in the blog. 

Now that the tribunal is over, the passion for styling is gradually coming back and I'm getting excited about the things to come, but for the moment I'm doubting myself, a lot. I know I'm my own worst enemy, I have these ideas of what I would love to do, but shoot myself down before I even get started. I procrastinate about things for so long and then get upset with myself for being lazy, for not pushing myself further along with things, or just never really committing myself to something I'm passionate about for fear of failure.

Well over the last couple of days I've decided to change my attitude towards things, I've been listening to some inspirational videos and feel fired up to do things. I've even managed to do a few little jobs around the house that I've been putting off for ages! Although this still doesn't really help with what this blog is about, maybe for the moment it can just be a sort of diary, with the odd styling tips thrown in for good measure.

Hope you all have a lovely week. 

Kat x


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  1. Emma LindellFebruary 21, 2021 at 10:13 PM

    Can totally relate!! Think we all need spring, sun and lockdown to end to bring some inspriation and muchh needed motivation! I'm looking forward to some spring / summer styling tips... I'm so out of touch, have no idea what is ' in' and I have pretty much forgotten what a clothes shop looks like!! Haha! Lots of love, Emma x

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