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Changing My Mindset

 


So I'm still waiting on the ruling of my tribunal, which is still taking up some of my thoughts, but I'm trying not to focus on it too much. Instead I'm trying to get in the right frame of mind to work on the things I want to, like my personal styling business amongst other things.

I would have loved to have jumped straight back into it, but like I said on my previous blog, I'm giving myself some time to deal with the aftermath of the tribunal. Even today I had a bit of a wobble, thinking about things I should have said/what the outcome might be. However, my hubby put things into perspective for me and basically said I need to relax more, which to be honest I'm still learning how to do.

One of the things I've been doing more of recently is reading, currently fiction, but I've got some styling books that I want to get back into. My friend @thebalancecoach a wellness coach, recently posted some great books for motivation regarding building a business, which I've stuck in my amazon basket to order as and when. Another friend @terezrijkenberg who is a strategy coach, has published a book How to Get it All Done on her tips to help manage your time, which I've yet to read but looking forward to getting stuck into it.

Other than that there's not much else to do apart from watch Netflix, just finished Cobra Kai, which was awesome. If anyone has any recommendations send them my way, or not, if I've got all these books to read!

Kat x

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